Parent Discussion Guides
Structured conversation guides to help families navigate college planning with open, supportive communication.
Keys to Successful Family Conversations
Do:
- • Listen actively and ask open-ended questions
- • Share your own experiences and vulnerabilities
- • Focus on their interests and values
- • Be patient with the process
- • Celebrate small wins and progress
Avoid:
- • Imposing your own career dreams
- • Comparing to siblings or peers
- • Making decisions for them
- • Dismissing their concerns or ideas
- • Rushing the conversation
Early Exploration (Grades 9-10)
Building Foundation & Discovering Interests
30-45 minutes
Parent + Student
College Readiness (Grade 11)
Serious Planning & Decision Making
45-60 minutes
Parent + Student + Counselor (optional)
Decision Time (Grade 12)
Final Choices & Transition Planning
60+ minutes
Whole Family
Ongoing Support (College Years)
Maintaining Connection & Providing Guidance
30-45 minutes
Parent + College Student
Difficult Conversations
Navigating Challenges & Setbacks
45-90 minutes
Parent + Student (+ Professional if needed)
Additional Resources
Professional Support
- • School counselors and college advisors
- • Educational consultants
- • Career counseling services
- • Family therapy for communication support
Online Resources
- • College planning websites and tools
- • Career exploration assessments
- • Financial aid calculators
- • Parent support communities